{"id":759,"date":"2012-11-13T19:35:31","date_gmt":"2012-11-13T18:35:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/?p=759"},"modified":"2012-11-12T11:54:22","modified_gmt":"2012-11-12T10:54:22","slug":"elle-est-ma-femme-ou-je-suis-son-mari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/?p=759","title":{"rendered":"Elle est ma femme ou je suis son mari"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quelle est la diff\u00e9rence entre dire \u00ab\u00a0Sushila est ma femme\u00a0\u00bb et \u00ab\u00a0Je suis le mari de Sushila\u00a0\u00bb ?<\/p>\n<p>A premi\u00e8re vue, il est facile de croire que la diff\u00e9rence est minime. Une simple modification de vocabulaire. Mais en fait cela change la perspective de la relation. Cela change mon propre positionnement dans la relation.<br \/>\nMon \u00eatre ou \u00ab\u00a0Je\u00a0\u00bb d\u00e9pend alors de mon caract\u00e8re de mari de Sushila. C&rsquo;est \u00e0 dire comment prendre soin de ma femme. Elle est comme elle est, avec ses d\u00e9sirs et ses attentes.<br \/>\nAlors que si je dis : elle est ma femme. Inconsciemment, je ne lui reconnais pas compl\u00e8tement la possibilit\u00e9 d&rsquo;\u00eatre elle-m\u00eame. J&rsquo;attends d&rsquo;elle qu&rsquo;elle fasse ce que je souhaite.<\/p>\n<p>Renversons la relation. Changeons de perspective !<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Quelle est la diff\u00e9rence entre dire \u00ab\u00a0Sushila est ma femme\u00a0\u00bb et \u00ab\u00a0Je suis le mari de Sushila\u00a0\u00bb ? A premi\u00e8re vue, il est facile de croire que la diff\u00e9rence est minime. Une simple modification de vocabulaire. Mais en fait cela change la perspective de la relation. Cela change mon propre positionnement dans la relation. Mon [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=759"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/759\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":779,"href":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/759\/revisions\/779"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lilom.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}